My heart is in Boston today, as I think about the Marathon last year and the tragic events that resulted in people dying, losing limbs, suffering brain injuries and more. I think about the runners, the spectators and the first responders. People who were called upon to act and save others. People who lost their friends and family members. Tragedy abounds. But through the tragedy, the Boston spirit has survived, pulling others through the most difficult and unimaginable days they have encountered.
It almost seems like an afterthought that today’s event is about the 36,000 participants who have trained, sacrificed, and devoted themselves to their goal of completing 26.2 miles through the streets of Boston and surrounding towns. It is just so much more this year. These 36,000 people are running for all of us – for freedom, for strength, for resiliency. For each other. For those who were killed and injured. For those who perhaps witnessed the events and have never recovered emotionally. Thank you for running this year.
In some of the media coverage, I have seen pictures of people who have lost limbs and who are using wheelchairs. There are probably spinal cord injuries and brain injuries among them. Having connections to others (including my own son) who has a spinal cord injury, my heart hurts for what they are facing. But my heart also knows there will be better times ahead. None of it will be easy; most of it will be filled with challenges, fear and uncertainty. May we all be BOSTON STRONG and help those in need, even if it’s just in spirit, thoughts and prayers.
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Happy Friday! Happy Spring! I hope the calendar means that warm weather and sunshine are on their way.
My most recent addition to Push to Walk’s Website – Family Corner section is on getting help from others after a loved one sustains a spinal cord injury. I know that I felt, as a Mom, that only I could do certain things for my child. And for a time, that was pretty true. Or at least I felt I was the only one who “could or should” do things; who else would do as good as job, etc. But as time passed, I knew accepting help from others would help all of us. Not only for the family relationships as mother/son, but for me and my husband as well, and also for Darren and his sister. Family dynamics (which I’ll discuss in an upcoming section) were greatly affected, and having others help with day to day tasks and/or specific jobs really became a lifesaver.
I found it really important for Darren to take charge of his own care, to articulate his needs and make sure things were done properly. Those lines get blurry when it’s a family relationship, then the relationship becomes strained and affects other feelings. While it is impossible to think everything will go smoothly when talking about daily care and family relationships, at least having a good framework to work within, or goals to reach definitely can help.
Please check out the Family Corner section of our website, and I hope my experience helps someone out there going through similar situations. If you have ways you did things that helped you and your family, please let me know!
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Having more clients at Push to Walk with MS recently has led me to have conversations with a variety of people about this disease and condition. One of my friends is a nurse in a pediatrician’s office and she is seeing MS diagnosed more frequently in children now more than ever before. Is this because MS has become a catch-all diagnosis of sorts when no other explanation can be found? Is research showing groups of children exhibiting various symptoms that are similar to adult diagnoses of MS? Are there new causes of MS in children? I decided to search a little on the internet, and found some very interesting information.
According to WebMD, I found that while “multiple sclerosis (MS) occurs most commonly in adults, it is increasingly being diagnosed in children and teenagers. Of the 400,000 diagnosed cases of MS in the U.S., 8,000 to 10,000 are in children up to 18 years old. Neurologists think there are probably many more children with MS that have not been diagnosed.” I found this intriguing and wanted to know more. The article continued on to say “multiple sclerosis may manifest itself differently in children and adults. In children, it may begin after a period of neurological symptoms called acute disseminated encephalomyelitis (ADEM). For most children, the symptoms of ADEM — including headache, delirium, lethargy, coma, seizures, stiff neck and fever – are temporary. But other children continue to have symptoms or experience additional symptoms that meet the criteria of MS. MS is thought to progress more slowly in children than in adults; however, significant disability can occur at an earlier age in people whose MS begins in childhood or adolescence. The cognitive and psychological consequences of MS are likely greater in children and adolescents and may affect academic performance, self-image, and relationships with peers.”
I will continue to do more research in this area, and see if our program at Push to Walk would be helpful to children diagnosed with MS. If you have experience or knowledge of this topic to share with me and my readers, I’ll hope you’ll share it with us!
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My latest edition to the Family Corner section of Push to Walk’s website describes how I felt about establishing a schedule and routine for Darren, me and our family when we arrived home from Shepherd Center.
My intent was to establish a schedule of sorts as soon as possible, which was not necessarily a project that progressed evenly or predictably. Unplanned events happened, Darren would get sick, I don’t even remember all that was going on right when we got home. But I was pretty insistent on at least trying to maintain a regular routine, partly for my own sanity if nothing else.
I hope this information on our website helps some of you in similar situations, or helps reaffirm the fact you are not alone in going through this difficult transition. If there is anyone reading this blog post or website section, and you would like to discuss anything related to SCI, please feel free to comment here or get in touch with me. I am always available, and would be happy to help.
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I’ve been thinking about a friend of mine who has MS and follows a very strict diet that has improved how she feels on a daily basis. It’s primarily a gluten free diet, but I’m not sure what else she might do, like taking vitamins, supplements, etc. Maybe she’ll respond to this post and provide more information!
So thinking about the whole connection between MS and nutrition, I did a little research and came across this site: http://www.nhfw.info/multiple-sclerosis.html. The author writes below:
“I have a disorder called Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, which is supposedly an incurable hereditary connective tissue disorder (HCTD). Yet, in doing research on EDS, I found lots of diet and supplement tips that helped my condition by collecting nutrition books and reviewing studies in Medline, the medical research database at the National Institute of Health’s website. An acquaintance of mine has multiple sclerosis, and in comparing symptoms there seemed to be some overlap between MS and EDS. In order to help my friend, I did the same research for MS that I did for myself and EDS. Her MS symptoms improved through changing her nutritional habits, which is why I decided to put up this web site.”
A few of the nutrients she writes about are Magnesium, Gluten, Uric Acid, Estrogen, Vitamin D and Vitamin B12. It seems to me that there are not a lot of studies providing concrete evidence of how to manage one’s diet after being diagnosed with MS, but by talking with your Doctor and perhaps consulting a nutritionist, diet changes could make a positive impact on your day to day quality of life. In northern New Jersey, one of the most respected medical centers, Barnabas Health, provides a comprehensive MS program that includes a wellness and exercise program as well as general info on MS.
I hope this information and links provide useful information. If you’ve found something that works for you, please post and share it with us. Thanks for reading!
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